Are there people in the halls you see and turn the other way - go out of your way to avoid ? Other that the obvious ex-boy/girlfriend who screwed you over - what traits do these people have that makes you want to turn away ? Is it a permanent thing? Once you've flipped the switch - they're out - or do they get a second chance ? Does it fade over time ? Lastly - is it OK, or do you feel bad ? I'm asking cuz it happens to me occasionally, right now I have two on my list. It's hard to p...

What is the appeal of body modification? Piercing , Tattoos , Scarification , or even Extreme Weird Stuff (CAUTION!!) ? Some people like the way a tattoo or piercing looks. Some people like the shock value, or it is the "in thing" to do in their social group. Many people regret it later - opting for laser tattoo removal , or let their piercings close up. For me it goes deeper. It's my experience that life is a slippery thing - your circumstances change, your relationships chang...